Effective Tips to Spice up Your Sex-Life

It Got Boring… No Sexual Satisfaction in a Relationship?

Spice up Your Sex-Life – It is hard to come up with something new in the bedroom every day,. Especially if you have been with your partner for a while. But if you want to remain the only one for your love, you need to learn how to boost your partner’s sexual satisfaction.

One of the most exciting methods to improve sexual satisfaction in a long-term relationship is to organize a spontaneous date through hookup sites. Learn how to spend the most exciting night of your life.

 What does sexually satisfied mean?

A sexually satisfied person is in a state of complete happiness physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Different people describe sexual satisfaction differently. For someone, sexual satisfaction is just an intense orgasm, while other people will also need a mental connection and emotional compatibility.

Why do you need to make sure your partner’s sexual satisfaction is on top?

If your partner’s sexual satisfaction is good, they will never think about leaving or betraying you. You will also create harmony and trust in the relationship. Sexual satisfaction will transform good sexual energy into a good mood and pleasure from everyday activities.

 Unfortunately, many people note that they get no sexual satisfaction in a relationship, and they do not know what to do. Read our top tips to find out how to feel satisfied sexually and have a healthy relationship.

Spice up Your Sex-Life

Change the Environment

 If you have been together for a while now and you have only had sex in your bedroom, it is no wonder that you do not get enough sexual satisfaction. You need to find a new place. There you can forget about all your problems and spend the night you and your significant other will never forget. Book a room in a nice hotel or have sex in a changing room in the shopping mall.

Experience brand-new emotions and bring your sexual satisfaction to a new level,. Seduce your partner in the least obvious place like a taxi or a movie theater. Be careful, though, and try not to get caught.

Role Play Increase Sexual Satisfaction

Most women usually think that playing with their partner will make them embarrassed or awkward. Roleplay always increases the sexual satisfaction of both partners and helps to create a special atmosphere. You can be anyone you want!

Talk to your partner and ask him who he would like you to be. This step will bring your sexual satisfaction to a whole new level and give you unforgettable memories. 

Live and Learn

 Show your partner exactly what kind of caressing you enjoy. Such a game is very exciting, as it emotionally brings the couple very close and boosts their sexual satisfaction. No matter how close you and your significant other are.

All of us are unique and have our own erogenous zones and points of excitement that increase our sexual satisfaction.

Give Compliments

 Contrary to stereotypes, compliments are even more important for men’s mood and sexual satisfaction than women’s. Tell your partner how important he is to you, how his taste, voice, or smell excites you.

Compliments have an incredible impact on our self-esteem and sexual satisfaction.

Spend Quality-Time Together

You will never do all of your tasks or solve all problems. Concentrating on our routine we forget to give attention and satisfaction to our loved ones. We have time to go to the gym, attend self-development courses, work and meet with friends. Then, at the end of the day, we say that we are tired and do not want to have sex today. Being rejected will definitely kill all sexual satisfaction.

Make a rule to devote at least one evening a week only to each other. Leave the house, have a beautiful evening, give each other tenderness, attention, and satisfaction. This simple step will make your sexual satisfaction go crazy.

Satisfaction Is Essential

Sexual satisfaction is an essential component of love relationships. However, over the years, people are more and more immersed in routine life. It becomes more and more difficult to enjoy each other and increase a partner’s sexual satisfaction.

Many women are not sure how to please their partner in bed and give him new positive emotions, while men are wondering how to know if a woman is sexually satisfied at all. Our top tips will definitely help you and your partner to spice up your sex life and be closer than ever.

Share your advice on how to bring something new in a sexual relationship and add satisfaction in the comments!

Author’s bio:  

Miranda Davis is a freelance writer in the relation and psychology area. Miranda is interested in such topics as building healthy relationships between people, love/sex compatibility, and how to find the right balance in life in general. She is currently doing specific research on the topic. Miranda loves cooking and long-distance walking.

Lube War: Anal Lube VS Vaginal Lube

Everyone knows that due to lube sex becomes especially sensual and comfortable. Did you know there is somewhat of a lube war happening. Its place in intimate life cannot be underestimated, because sometimes without lubrication it is impossible to have sex at all.

Modern sex industry says that each of us can find for himself exactly “that very lube” to meet special needs and to be suitable for a particular sex. Therefore, in this business, as experienced lovers know, there are no trifles.

Anal lube can significantly increase the pleasure of sex and to add a special taste. Vaginal lube cannot cope with the task assigned to the anal one. Below we will provide a lot of serious arguments to prove this.

The history of lube emergence in sex industry

As we know it and as the sex industry offers us, the modern lube comes from the 19th century. Its invention is credited to the talented chemist Francis Guarier. Having signed a contract with an engineering company to develop a lube for mechanical parts, he spent the day and slept in his laboratory in order to receive the remuneration.

A few weeks later, his wife got tired of it and she made a fuss for him right at the workplace, reproaching him for not paying enough attention to her. But, as they say, lovers’ tiffs are harmless. It all ended with amazing sex, before which the scientist forgot to wash his hands.

After he touched his wife with them in intimate places, she said that she liked it, after which the man seriously thought about how and for what the lube could be used. After fulfilling his contract, Francis went headlong into the project and invented the first lube for sex.

There Are So Many Choices

Now, the choice is truly limitless, and sometimes it seems that there is no limit to it, and people who are not versed in this may even think that there is no difference other than volume or design. This is very unsound opinion, anal lube and vaginal lube are not the same thing at all. More precisely, each of them is ideally suited for one or another type of sex.

Therefore, it is worth to expand on this theme, and in more detail to understand the question:

What is the difference?

Anal lube is thicker

 First of all, you should know that anal lube is always thicker than vaginal. The reason for this lies on the surface. A natural lube is released from the vagina, even if it is not sufficiently hydrated. The same is no saying about the anus or rectum. Therefore, during anal sex all hope is placed on intimate cosmetics.

But vaginal lube is lighter and is quickly absorbed, so its application may not even be enough for the time it takes to gently and painlessly insert the penis, vibrator, or dildo into the anus.

Anal lube may include antiseptic

Since anal sex is not as hygienic as vaginal, exist anal lubes with special antiseptic, which is designed to destroy bacteria that have got on penis, and then avoid them getting into vagina. It is an argument to try all the delights of such sex, if one of the partners is squeamish or especially anxious about health.

Anal lube with cooling and warming effects

Many women needlessly and unjustifiably avoid anal sex, believing that it hurts. In fact, this is nothing more than a myth supported by those who have not tried it, since in fact it all depends on the skill and patience of the partner. Moreover, those who love this kind of sex, authoritatively declare that the pleasure is sometimes even brighter!

For such cases, there is a special anal lube with a cooling effect. The lidocaine present in it slightly freezes the anus and there is no pain felt. And as we can see again, vaginal lube doesn’t have such effect. At the same time, it should be understood that neither the woman nor her partner will feel special pleasure, since the nerve endings will not have such sensitivity.

Such a lube will be useful only at first, and when the unreasonable fear disappears and the anus gets used to penetration you can switch to another lube.

Anal Sex Preperation

As for preparing the anus for sex, it will be better to keep in mind the lube with warming effect. It will cause an additional rush of blood to the intimate place, help to relax and make sex even more sensual and enjoyable.

And, of course, no extreme fisting lover would say that vaginal lube is the right choice for entertainment. This process takes time to warming up, stretching and penetration itself. No matter what fisting is, anal or vaginal, either anal lube or a special lube intended for this must be used.

Apply vaginal lube only on penis

Whichever anal lube you choose, you should be generous in applying it anyway. For example, vaginal lube can be applied only on penis and then systematically distributed along the vagina walls. But before anal sex, lube should be present both on penis at the entrance to the anus and in the sphincter itself.

Then, you can be sure in the most exciting pleasure. The very process of lube application can be a foreplay, since many men are quite excited about this.

 Water or silicone based?

Vaginal and anal lube have something in common. Both can be water-based or silicone-based. And if the water-based is really universal, although it is absorbed faster, then the second one is not compatible with mans sex toys. Anything made of cyber leather or silicone. This should be considered while using vibrators.

Someone may say that anal lube or vaginal lube does not make that much difference. But it’s like eating soup with a fork. It is possible but not pleasant and convenient, And sex, as one of the main components of our life, should be fabulous and should bring nothing but joy and satisfaction from the process.

If vaginal lube has already become your “friend “, then try to make sure that anal lube is also always present at your bedside table. And your anal sex experience will be amazing!

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