Having sex is one of the good parts of life, no matter how you do it, when you do it, it is always fun. We are not been created to be good or bad at something, there needs to be training, understanding, and most of all practice and improvement. I will share my journey to learn about better sex and hopefully you will get it too.
My parent did not teach me everything about sex, they just bought a book and gave it to me, they said: “If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask”. The book was very good, it had everything I need it to know to understand where babies came, and that’s it. I had to learn the hardest way, by just doing it. During my first attempts at doing, it was awful, no rhythm, I was clueless how to do it, until someone took the time to explain it to me, I was so embarrassed about it. Then I used the same technique every single time. What I did not realize is that every woman is different, and they like different things.
I thought I had everything figured out, I had a script, just by following this script everything will be “Okay” but certainly that was not the case. It does not matter what you did in the bedroom every woman will go out without telling you if it was good sex or bad sex, and if it is just one-night standing you will never know, but her friends will.
I remember one particular night, I was just following my script, and then suddenly, she took control of the situation putting herself on top, then she came; she started dressing right away, and I said “Hey, what about me?” and she replied “you don’t need me for the ending”, and just like that, she left. So I had time for myself to think what went wrong, then I realize that it was me. Following the script will not work well anymore, and most likely she was the only one with the guts to tell me. An improvement was required and this is what I did about it.
How to Prepare for Sex
- Physical Training: Sex is physical. We need to be prepared to it, going to the gym and running will improve your resistance during sex, and your partner will love it too. The exercises are needed for endurance, a lot of it, and if you have extra pounds it is time to lose it, by adding a little bit of diet to the mix.
- Buying Sex Education DVDs: Getting the right kind of information, it is very important for this process, we need to learn from the best. However if you look for the internet anything related to free videos you will get only porn that will not tell you anything about doing it right. An investment is needed to achieve the goal, and buying the right DVDs it is a vital step, I bought the DVDs from xvideo.com.au they came as fast as I needed and they had all the information that I wanted. That is why I highly recommend it for any experienced or beginner user.
- Practice: This is the vital part of the process, without practice there is no way you can improve your sex skills. The educational videos will teach you everything you need to know about all the topics you are interested and to learn about better sex, however, they won’t do it for you. With the mere right guidance and training nothing can become better, I suggest to practice anything new gradually. since there is a lot of information, you need to practice all, but do it with different partners and avoid do it all at the same time, since there is a greater risk to make a mistake….. (it will be continued).